for me , the gestalt of now-> future..
decided 'choices'..
years of it.. to prevent 'mahabharata' like 'choices..
it never is meant to be this difficult..
but becomes.
u have to consider the base of every 'actor' here..
their 0..
what they think of their min identity...
i think thats the true work..
self bias..
sometimes what we call 'home'..
is the reason of it all..
our safe place or person : may be scared..
of just losing u..
or just being used to u.
thats potential and future denied for ancestral or 'experience' safe.
it sounds confusing right?...
you learn it...
i learned it...via 'travel'.