the real duty of parents : teaching how to deal with 'failure'..
being logical about it : data and all..
but it starts with 'understanding' the kid...
1 of the biggest number : narcs lead society has done..
it demeans empathy : as 'sensitive'..
for bois : it is much verbose..
it is not the 'crying'..
but why it hurt so much : that it made the boi : cry..
like any 'feeling'...even 'addiction'..
brain/body : has a mechanism to blunt it..
failure in different 'aspects' : are the same..
if a kid : is dismissed as 'soft' or 'sensitive'..
it just forces the kid : to make a 'choice'..
to suppress the 'feels'..
and become a 'bully'..
if the 'culture - religion X surname X lineage'..
is of page 3 : success ..
like punjaabi and bihar imports..and banglaHole in general..
people become 'successful'...page 3..
their choices : are decided by 'image' of dem : the facebook and linkedin of it.
as a parent ...
i think we get a do-over..
we remain proud?
or we 're-make' our mistakes?
that is the real guilt : which makes people regret death..
they always think : they have enough time.. to do 'right'..
when they have the 'money' and 'time'.
coz : they all want to go to heaven..
after creating hell : here.