Self Discovery

28 Oct 2023

This is one thing no one in the world really wants you to do.

Really - no one.

Decoding emotions

Plutchiks' Wheel of emotions

Using the emotion wheel - as i do

The idea is pretty simple.

Example

not Google "worthy"

It initially evoked "apprehension"

at level 1, it seems somewhere in "surprise, sadness,"- the bottom right part - for the "listener"

from the "Speaker" - a sort of attack on ego.

Now, it really is in your "self" to take it from there.

Paths:

Terror, admiration, acceptance - all depends on our actions - it shifts all the time.

The finer points of the wheel - rational "feeling" transitions happen gradually - like clockwork, if one can really put in the work

Intent

It is often people trying to "hack" you.

Sadly - the nicer 1 is, the more chances that you have been or are been hacked.

After a lot of work - one can travel to the far side of - trust, joy....and then work inwards.

The nicer part - the bullies would go through the same transition - but opposite.

Put in your work in you, to realize your "work" - the sole action or choice anyone needs to make.

I am making it sound simple, but really it involves making a lot of hard choices.

Morality

Morality is a personal subject. I really have no issues with people using their inherent gifts to get an advantage.

The real result - identify your true self - good, bad really doesnt matter.

This is just identifying the "constraints".

as any engineer knows - step 1 in finding a solution is defining the "problem" - your feelings and "why" of you.

-tx and tx.

Source: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/self-discovery-ashish-tanwar-oxuif