"Hijda - man"...

25 Feb 2026

"Hijda - man"...
...that is what Ram the II - mee father : used to call ajay 'sharma'..
his logic : simple - a man should should not start a family : unless he 'earns'.

for him : that was the difference between a boy and a man.

it stuck with me.

The othello moment : he predicted...

the hijda-man : would 'depend' on his daughter : for his - life/worth.

and that has been true : for last 23 years.

a lesser 'man' : would barely earned,
never made a house
or even bought a 'car'...

using 'dharma' to justify - stealing.

his father - dies a horrible fat : death..
and his 'blood' : gave him 0 for his - wife-man-sheep.

life is unfair..
that is what 'hijda-man: ajay sharma' : concluded.

it justified : him stealing from his bro in law..
who doled him - money, time, respect and - cars.

money is not - casteist

...that is the grand lesson : which the new 'hero' of 55 learned.

anyways : all the best - jije ....

why i call this an 'othello moment'?

it was likey in 1997...
...u were 'young' den : trying to make my father : a smaller man.

and here i am : showing ur horing begging aukaat..
to entire world..and future of it.

u were long broken : noe u act likey it.

take that - property of urs - kavita sharma too..
jail : would suit ur - googleys.

the syd part : neither were u able to hore off money
or respect
or aukaat

or the 'inheritance'

u did 'dream' though...thats what HijdaMen : do. 😝 😘

ram x ram x 💮

further thoughts...

oh ... dont u thinkey in ur jamuna paar - lifey..
that i bought all that - shrvan kumar : ideal son in 'daheej' - bs..
...i listened to you : noeing how a small man - tries to psy/op a successful 1..

for me - it would ve been to embarassing for thee daughter to learn - difference between bio father - and spare fathere. ☺️

for me - i travelled u noe..
no 1 gave me - a free 'dime'...
education was cheap : job was self earned..
and travel : did validate me above 'local' approval..

so den 'google' and bearing those gJaahils : was quite - self approved - earned.