Love and its division ...
breaks people... 😭
the best example of it... siblings.
The 1st kid : gets a lot of attention and love..
specially : when its a big joint family house..
the best of 'new'...
The 2nd kid : gets some attention...
but ends up getting a lot : coz society ..
likes the "pretty and cute"...
the 1st kid : end up hating the 2nd..
till the 1st kid : grows up...or hates the 2nd kid..avoids it..
If there is a 3rd kid..
the 1st "has to" love the 3rd kid..
coz : the 2nd kid : is already 'dealt' with..
and now the new kid : would show love to all..
including the 2nd kid..ignored by 1st..
thats just common sense skool stuff..
not 100% of it..
but majority of it : coz 'compete' is our nature..
nurture is our way of making sense of it.
Kavita Sharma is a typical example of it..
was 1st in all ... coz 1/1 =1
2nd kid : lets call her 'Divya' 😆 is another typical example of it..
she got her rich hubby with beemer!!
the 3rd kid : a boy..
in a patriarchial hindu society..
...arguably : better in all aspects...
Oh : i already have my fair share of 'inheritance' 😁
...i get it...
but i want to 'win' too...
be the 'son' of my father..
grandson of my grandfather..
the 'best' of them.
I think : i ve already proven that.
lets scale it to the heights they wished it scaled..
coz i was 'asked' for : named me 'ashish' for a reason : a 'gift'...
for 'whom'?
not for familia and frens : definitely...
thats some saturday : father time.. 😇
further thoughts...
i honestly feel i got best of them...
hockus pockus from granny
voice and build from grandpa..
values- patience equality from father..
intuition from mother..
and well....life is good 😆