my way of dealing with 'failures'..
is quite brain dead simple..
the reason of failure : in 'tech' is quite simple : crash or performance..
but in bizzness ..
it is people and 'trust'.
it can all be 'random' circumstances..
but in a bizzness plan : random is accounted for..
cost of inputs, people and their 'limits of lying'..
they all : are accounted for...if money is ample.
but : few failures are planned and delibrate..
coz the 'win' : would mean an 'elevation' in page 3 circles..
mostly people 'vanish' or 'become unavailable' at 'crucial' moments..
but 'reappear' after the 'make or break' choices..
it seems like something bad happened in their lives..
it would also seem like it..
coz they do compliment your 'choice' in overcoming their 'absence'..
the compliment : is a 'in' for 'association'..
they will explain their reasons for it : all very heart moving..logical..
but they ll want to know : how did you overcome it..
more time : more emotion : more trauma bond..
the compliment of 'past'..
doesnt help 1..
all it does : is give more pointers to the page 3 'helping' narc..
how to 'hack' you in your future..
the names, the new people : they ll want to know it all..
to promise you their undying 'loyalty' : next time
it is like a failed serial killer, returning to the crime scene
to debug the 'failure'...
you ll lose more time : guaranteed.
hope : is their 'win'..
when they already 'won'..
by 'associating' with struggles..
with no 'input' : now of future.
thats how arts and crafts 'win'.
you will think : that a person with past history of 'trauma'..
is really sincere..
...but they are : just being smart in their own ways.
a 0 invest of 0 in 0 : with 'returns'..
thats an 0/1 = infinity : is true for middle class.
it is their beliefs : how to beome 1..
by being 'adjacent' : stories of struggle and friendship.
cute and illogical.
my definition of 'friends' evolved..
people who are passionate and loyal : for a 'purpose'.