Kids - make a better you
you may be 🙄 about it
or 🙂 :(...
but at the end...
it needs to be done.
My niece....
trained me to be a father...
she was different...
she was meant to be....
in some ways...we know each other...
i got her things which i lacked or wished....
and she really enjoyed them....
became good at it....
amazingly good....
she genuinely 'defeated' me - in games.
I saw her as a better me....
a perfect 1....
an unkle - or just a sarcastic older brother...
She relieved what i lived...a part of it....
with same patterns of 'parenting'....repeating....
her trauma, being healed with 'love bombing'.....
i saw the fault....her hack....
...
she saw me lose...
year after year.....
I was a real father then....
i could not lose....
for a daughter thats not mine...but 'feels' mine....
and a son thats mine...but 'feels' owned....
hence this pre-empting of bleah blah...
and sharing few 'principles of 0'....
coz when it hits....these kids of mine....
should take it better....
and create better....
they were born - better. In love, in intent and purpose.
the motivation
further thoughts...
maybe...u dint get deadpool 2 either... 😀
i hope the 'picture' is coming together....
any kid...should not end up being a veronica/amit - unless s/he wants to be..
not tools of baldies - of religion, money or fame...
thats the big goal...
the purpose of 'sustainability'....
which cannot be achieved... if same ol 90s baldies....gatekeep their way..
it is bigger than their ego.