90s baldies - cause and effect of 'genius'

Indi parents and their struggle with 'values' as they age++

I wrote something about 90s baldies 'contribution' to 'progress' on 'India'.

The lesser known aspect - the personal lives - and its impact on the 'kids'

the long shadow of 'expectation' which most of 90s genius conjure up upon the kids
I know many in 40s - all living the pattern.

Society, respect and being a good 'son/daughter'

a convenient pick and choose of Hindu Trads and Western Ways
lets add a hidden hint of indi flavor of neotism - casteism

If 1 thinks about it , last few decades of 'feminist' wave tends to twist the logic and its implementation on the desi fem devi.

Implications - the expectation of being a fem - male - the do it all.

A showcase worthy spouse - the insta/fb life
A model kid - the 1 liked by all - looks / sheep manners - tables - abce etx
A social life of being 'recognized' for it
subtly psy/oped since eternity - "dekho sharma ji ka beta IIT.." - (new Alfred())

This - is quite a lot of work and mental stress - literally.

even from the gestalt of a natural born and eternally indebted 'hindu' man.

The 'expectations' of becoming a Veronica

from being a 'betty' while being a stoic fem
thats a lot..

in end...all battles 'won'...we end up becoming something...

Black Sheep - Indi society and its implications in determining the 0

This 1 is from a "Rabbi" - an official 'prophet' 😀

automated import. If something looks out of place, check the orig linkedin post

After Thoughts

Thoth:#1

marriage - a 'compulsary' of being 'success' in 'society'

the pretences - the compromises - the sad reality of it all...making peace with it..

$ religion - it is a losing mission...

know the 'problem'..

though - i think this applies to v small % in a family - there is only 1..

but it is also a pattern - which multiplies to famila, friends, society ...

Thoth:#2

a 0 - would end up feeling like this - in some from...

society, professional, GF/spouse etc..

the choice - hack or a fix

ppl go for hack - it makes the feel of 0 goes away..

Thoth:#3

In delusional unkle's exp - leo neo- fems - durga devi 99% 🤣